Dating a narcissistic men
Narcissists and people-pleasers/codependents have a way of finding each other.
The cycle only stops when the non-disordered partner accepts that things will only change when he or she becomes aware that this is a one way relationship and that they will always be in the giving, not getting, role.
He places no value on open, fair and honest exchanges.
He's too concerned with satiating his own hunger for whatever it is that he needs, be it physical, emotional, financial, whatever.
My kindness should be praised, my My ex-girlfriend constantly needed to be acknowledged, adored, and admired.
She would get mad at me if I didn't call her each morning on my way to work and on the way home (we didn't live together), yet she would also get upset because she said it felt like pressure for me to call her.
Here is how another narcissist describes his need for admiration: Since I have risen from such adversity, I expect others should look on me with admiration and respect at getting this far from so little.
It's a hallmark of the disorder in the same way that fear of abandonment is in borderline personality disorder.Grandiosity" means, a sustained, unrealistic sense of being superior—better than other people.It also refers to a sense of uniqueness; the belief that few others have anything in common with oneself and that one can only be understood by a few or very special people.Yet sometimes the narcissist doesn't get everything she needs through more subtle means. They take advantage of others to achieve their own ends. But it generally involves using others without regard for their own feelings and interests.The narcissist doesn't even think about what's best for others.